i have earthed my starter relay now so it starts on the turn of the key, not sure what caused it, as i have been over the car again and there are NO loose wires but hey ho

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starts now so not too fussed haha

i just cut the black/white thin wire added a terminal block and a think earth wire and attached this to the boot wall

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starts perfectely

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(when the battery has charge haha)
